Sober Virgo Woman

Sobriety Coach


Personalized, empathetic support and practical tools for women seeking sobriety, delivered by someone who has walked the path and understands the journey.

Let me help you be the BEST version of yourself!

Hi there, I’m Michelle Buonfiglio and I’m a certified sobriety coach empowering women to rise above the obstacles of alcohol and unlock their incredible potential that lies within.

I bring enthusiasm, personal experience getting sober and years of experience as an educator to my process. I will absolutely support you and let you know you are not alone in your journey!

MY SERVICES

FREEBIE CONSULT

“Sober Curious?”

Excited you're here! Enjoy a complimentary 15-minute call, tailored just for you. Experience firsthand how coaching can assist you in reaching your goals. I'll provide a safe space to discuss your alcohol journey. It's an honor to support you - you deserve it all!

1-HOUR SESSION

“Let’s Do This!”

Let's discuss enhancing your life without alcohol. We'll identify triggers, explore coping methods and tackle your challenges. In this 60-minute session, we'll craft a personalized plan to keep you motivated and focused. Ready to unlock your potential?

4-HOUR PACKAGE

“Feel This Moment!”

Elevate your journey with my 4-hour intensive coaching package, custom-made for you. We'll delve into your life, address alcohol's impact and craft a plan for liberation. Let's amplify our efforts and bid alcohol farewell.

8-HOUR PACKAGE

“Can’t Stop, Won’t Stop!”

Ignite your potential and embark on a journey to transform your life without alcohol. Over the course of 8 (or more) sessions, immerse yourself in empowering conversations and deep self-reflection. Together, we'll uncover why alcohol can't hold you back any longer!

12-HOUR PACKAGE

“You Are UNSTOPPABLE!”

Unleash your inner superhero - one sober day at a time. With my 12-hour unstoppable coaching package, you'll vanquish alcohol and pursue your dreams fearlessly. Let's make your new life permanent and powerful. Together, we start NOW!

MY STORY

A little bit about myself… I’m Michelle Buonfiglio, a proud Virgo born in September with a deep passion for empowering women to reach their full potential. The picturesque Hudson Valley in New York is my home, where I draw inspiration from the natural beauty around me.

Growing up, my family was a blend of large gatherings on my dad's side and intimate moments with my mom's family. When my parents divorced during my teenage years, I found solace in my grandmother's loving care, with her amazing meals and unwavering support.

After high school, I attended community college, torn between nursing and education. My journey eventually took me to Florida with limited funds, where I worked nights as a nursing assistant and volunteered in elementary schools during the day. Watching Freedom Writers fueled my desire to teach and make a difference.

Returning to New York and moving in with my dad at 29 marked a turning point. That's when I met my husband, Dave, and decided to enroll in an accelerated adult education program. Suze Orman's words, "College debt is good debt," encouraged me to pursue my dream despite the cost. I balanced substitute teaching, serving, and bartending while working toward my master's in education.

After feeling alone for years, I finally found sobriety in 2020 with the help of numerous support communities. Despite a brief slip during a Mediterranean cruise, followed by a 10-month struggle with moderation, I recommitted to sobriety. This experience inspired me to help others in similar situations. Within two months, I completed a half marathon, launched my coaching business, and experienced profound personal growth culminating in marrying my soulmate and forging deeper bonds with my loved ones. Sobriety, I've discovered, is the key to unlocking life's greatest joys, and I'm here to show others they can achieve it too.

My nine-year battle with alcohol taught me resilience, and exploring sobriety transformed my life for the better. I take a discreet, confidential, and non-judgmental approach to helping others find their own path to sobriety, sharing my story to let others know they're not alone.

When I'm not teaching middle schoolers, you can find me practicing hot yoga, training for a running race, hiking with my hub in the Catskills, enjoying fabulous coffee drinks or mocktails, hosting sober events, and playing chase with my nieces and nephews.

I’m here for you… Let's embark on this journey together!

UPCOMING EVENTS

The White Party NYC

Friday, June 21, 2024, 6:30PM-10PM

Location to be Announced

Come hang out with me and an incredible community of women as we celebrate a sober summer in NYC! Save the date and stay tuned for the location reveal. And remember, wear your best white outfit for the occasion!

Summer Sip, Shop & Manifest

Friday, June 28, 2024, 6PM-9PM

at Ascension Wellness
168 Main St, Huntington, NY 11743

Join me & Liz from Vibe & Shine in a judgment-free zone to support your sobriety journey. We'll create vision boards, enjoy mocktails and have a fabulous shopping experience. Let's make your sober dreams a reality!

Babes In Business Event

Wednesday, July 24, 2024, 7PM-10PM

at Fire Island Vines Winery
17 E Main St, Bay Shore, NY 11706

Join me with Babes in Business for networking with industry leaders, opportunities and new connections! Meet pioneers, enjoy vendors, speakers and a lively party. Discussion leaders will guide icebreakers, so bring business cards for fruitful connections!

Curious Elixirs Cocktail Party

Coming Soon in July!

at Lux Hair Studio
104 Partition St, Saugerties, NY 12477

We had an absolute blast last time, so we're doing it again! Join us for another fun-filled evening of self-care, cocktails, mocktails from Curious Elixirs, hors d’oeuvres and shopping! Stay tuned for more details.

Yoga & Women in Business

Coming Soon in August!

Location to be Announced

OHM My Goodness... Get ready for the ultimate Yoga & Women in Business event! Breathe through your stress, stretch your dollar and stay flexible in any situation. NamaSTAY tuned for more info!

Babes In Business Event

Thursday, September 12, 2024, 7PM-10PM

at Sand City Brewing Co.
150 S Wellwood Ave, Lindenhurst, NY 11757

Join me with Babes in Business for networking with industry leaders, opportunities and new connections! Meet pioneers, enjoy vendors, speakers and a lively party. Discussion leaders will guide icebreakers, so bring business cards for fruitful connections!

“Don’t look back, you're not going that way.”

LEARN MORE

CONTACT ME

LET’S CHAT!
I’d love to hear from you.

Hey there, if you're thinking about sober living or just dipping your toes into moderation, you've got a buddy in me! Dive into my Services or shoot me an email at sobervirgowoman@gmail.com. Want an even quicker reply? Fill out the form nearby. Let's kickstart your sober journey together! Can't wait to chat – I'll hit you up in a jiffy. Cheers to new beginnings! xo, Michelle

TESTIMONIALS

  • "She's an amazing coach and person!"

    Shana, MI

  • "I turned to Michelle for her expertise and firsthand experience. After our first session, I felt empowered with a clear path forward. Her BS free safe space was exactly what I needed."

    Marie, NY

  • “Michelle is an out-of-the-box thinker when it comes to creating a sober lifestyle.”

    Laura, CA

  • “Michelle brings her enthusiasm and extensive personal experience to her work with those interested in sobriety.”

    Melanie, NS Canada

  • “As a sobriety coach, Michelle has been incredibly motivated and supportive. She is passionate and I can feel her energy in every phone call and text. The woman exudes positive energy!! I love how she brings real ideas and suggestions to each conversation. She knows from experience how to navigate difficult situations.”

    Resa, WA

  • "Michelle's enthusiasm, boundless energy and unwavering commitment to crafting personalized strategies make her an exceptional sobriety coach who truly transforms lives."

    Chris, NY

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